4 BDSM techniques to Experience London Dominatrix in bed

Be a manipulative mistress
Also called brain submission, this method involves molding your man into being your sex slave. To do this, show him who is the mistress and who is the submissive. If he doesn’t obey you, don’t hesitate to punish him in various ways (deprive him of an orgasm, tie him to the bed with handcuffs, gag his mouth…). Once he becomes more submissive, you can reward him with a little cunnilingus.

Be a fierce beast
Don’t think, but act! Show your man that you are a beast. And if necessary, don’t hesitate to bite or scratch it. And when he knows he’s the prey, he’ll know how to stand and you can do with him whatever you want.

Constantly give him orders
Even outside of sex, be intractable with him. To do this, give him orders and force him to do various tasks such as household chores. And at any time, when you feel the urge to have sex, do not hesitate to interrupt it and force it to give you pleasure.

Always guide his actions during sex
If you want the ultimate in control during your lovemaking, don’t let him do what he wants. On the contrary, you should guide him on the things he can and cannot do.

A little advice to finish: these BDSM techniques are especially suitable for cougar women who have naughty relationships with youngsters. If you are a couple who are in a real romantic relationship, do not practice these methods when you want to spice up your sex life a little.

The levers of control: the enjoyment and frustration of the submissive
To put your spouse in conditions conducive to submission, you will need to master two parameters. Her enjoyment on the one hand and her frustration on the other.

The idea is simply to restrict its enjoyment. A frustrated man becomes obsessed with his pleasure. However, if he knows that only you have the keys to his pleasure, he will do everything possible to deserve the right to enjoyment, that is to say, to satisfy you.

Contrary to popular belief, frustration, used in sexual exchange, is not negative. Men do not become violent under the effect of this frustration because they fully accept to delegate this heavy burden, that of their sex and their envy. A woman who controls the sexuality of her partner becomes extremely interesting for the latter. Indeed, he always contemplates her with the eyes of desire.

You don’t need a chastity cage or overpriced accessory to control each other’s frustration and enjoyment. You also don’t have to restrict your husband to one ejaculation per month. Already try to regain control of his orgasms and space them out for a few days and observe the changes in behavior. More tender, caring, gentle, quick to give you orgasms! The frustration has only positive points. Little by little he will get used to and enjoy these games of erotic frustration enormously, at least as much as having sex.

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