Beyond the limits of Dominatrix

The place and the atmosphere!
An important point is an atmosphere. Candles, incense, colored lights, room fragrances, music. All of this and more will need to be chosen based on what you want to convey in the place. The decoration will also have to change… maybe add some trivial elements of decoration which will make its effect or objects which can be used… an armchair for Madam, office, curtains…. All this is part of the game. There are sheets. easily cleanable vinyl and very “fetish” for those who have wet games, slippery, tights … something to tie, punish but above all, have fun … The use of mirrors is strongly recommended for this method of Dominatrix London.

The rules that cannot be changed
since Monsieur has the pleasure of being submissive. Madame has the right to ask you anything for “her” pleasure. It’s kind of his reward for all the preparation (laughs). She can dress you as she wants, put you in the position that pleases her, ask you for sex acts of her imagination, tie you up, punish you, spank you, gag you, etc. Monsieur does not have the right to challenge.

Another important rule is that Madame will sometimes have to turn you on to the extreme but cannot / should not make you come straight away. This is an important part of the game. The excitement will always be there but the enjoyment will have to be earned. As a result, penetration will not be systematic or even sometimes will not be at all. Madame decides whether or not you deserve the enjoyment and how. That’s the essence of the game … how is she going to make you cum despite all the sex she has done to you and you have done to her … hard! (laugh). Sir, if he is allowed to speak, will have to address Madam. Madam, she has the right to crude words, it is even advisable to be in the role. Madame can also decide to make Monsieur come several times. Knowing that it takes a while before Monsieur takes up his duties again, Madame can just use these charms or others to revive Monsieur.


When we accept to play a game of domination and submission we must be aware that we are venturing into a game that leads us to exceed our sexual limits (when we have them).
A couple for whom daring to dominate was just hooking up and coating themselves in whipped cream shouldn’t read on. Sometimes to discover new pleasures one has to break down shameful, religious, cultural, educational barriers about what is right or wrong. Madam and Sir will have to have complete confidence in each other and will have to go beyond their limits together and they will discover that sometimes the pleasure is where it is not expected. In this way, we can establish a submission “Contract” which will be part of the game.
The primordial rule for the submissive but also for the dominated being is to strive to overcome the feelings of guilt or shame as well as all the inhibitions which interfere with the capacities to serve Her and which limit development as a submissive or dominant.

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